I am compelled today to blog about the practicality of being a positive person no matter what. Many people consider being extremely optimistic, otherwise known as Pollyanna (a person who is excessively optimistic without logical reasons for being so) as naïve. But I must beg to differ, and argue for the opposite.
It’s not difficult to understand why some people might label another person as being naïve for choosing to be happy instead of sad all the time. I mean, I know that there are many moments in our lives where we believe that we have the “right” to feel wronged, or even down, because hey, it is after all a tough world out there. However, there is a power behind choosing a Pollyanna type approach, a power that many people just don’t necessarily seem to see. Interestingly, what is usually not noticed in the individuals who carry themselves in this positive light is the subtle control and discipline that they are using to maintain it. In actuality, holding strong and being positive in the face of negativity and scenarios which compel victimhood, ultimately demonstrates a mastery over ones emotions and reactions. So what seems to be illogical to many is really a form of Spartan-like behavior that leads eventually to better results for the individual. Let me show you what I mean. Now I am sure there are many more benefits out there for maintaining this approach, but these are the three benefits that instantly come to my mind:
1.) Living Your Best Life: A positive outlook means you feel better, and are thus happier most of the time, leading to a better overall experience of everyday life, which necessitates, overtime….a better life. It was Marcus Aurelius after all who admonished: “Reality is what our thoughts make of it.” It is possible to force your reality to be a positive one.
2.) Increasing Your Opportunities: A more practical benefit is the type of circumstances that one will attract. It’s not blatantly obvious, but how you feel affects how people react to you. If you feel good people will see that and will want to be around you to experience the same. When you feel bad people won’t want to be around you. This is important for business people and entrepreneurs. By not constantly projecting an attractive positive personality, you increase your chances of missing opportunity, for the simple reason that key partners/clients might just be repelled by you. If you are employed it closes doors to opportunities for advancement. Nobody wants to work with, nor for, a person who has a tendency to be negative, showing little to no control over their emotions, and as a result potentially decreasing the well being of those whom they associate with.
3.) Increasing Your Health: Positive thoughts = Good Health, Negative thoughts = Bad health. The more susceptible you let yourself be to negative emotions and feelings the more vulnerable you will be to sicknesses and illnesses as well as slow recovery. Don’t just take my word for it, look it up, read about it, the evidence is there.
Don’t want to do the research? Well then give it spin, you’ll see….there is Power in Pollyanna!